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Words you may need to empower yourself.

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#45 My bestie

Daily writing prompt
Jot down the first thing that comes to your mind.

I need a way to get rid of stupid people who create problems where there exists none, especially in my life. I wish they just vanish for eternity, those problems that they themselves are-Those social media goons as well as a few known ones who are still creating misunderstandings about me to others in general, AND those jealous ones who are always competing for heaven knows what!

Wise people say “Don’t blame the clown for acting like a clown. Stop going to the circus yourself.” Here, the clowns are acting like a clown inside my house, symbolically meaning that they are always entering my personal space and violating boundaries because they are immature narcissistic creeps who have no life of their own.

Lovely little moments..💜💛💫

Watching you do your every little thing

adoring you when you unknowingly make faces doing so,

waiting for the time when you get free from your busi-ness

Meanwhile hugging you,

and stealing kisses while you do your own thing,

is what I desire the most..

Photography-A Cow in the Hills.

Cow on a road in hills feels different. It represents calmth, resilience, and survival.

International Women’s Day.

Why didn’t I write anything about International Women’s Day this year??

Because it sounds so fake. People praise women for a day and disrespect them every single day.

Additionally, you will see misery of most of the people when they are jealous that why there exists a women’s day and why they are being praised.

Let’s celebrate every single day as women’s day in our personal as well as professional life AND don’t forget equality !! No gender- Women, Men, Transgender, Any Other, is superior or inferior.

Suffocating a narcissist.

How to suffocate a narcissist??

Give them attention once in a while and not at all at all the other times. Switch between these two inconsistently. This suffocates a narcissist to the core as a narc is always seeking your attention either by ignoring you so that you chase the narc or by bombarding you with attention-both positive and negative by triangulating, accusing, etc.

No constant attention means lack of supply of energy to the narcissist.

Although, don’t do it to a healthy minded person, lest you would seem to be a narcissist. Healthy minded people don’t give a fuck to people having this behaviour whereas a narcissist feels suffocated due to lack of attention.

PROs:

1. You are portraying as well as having freedom to give attention any time. You are not bound for that though.

2. You are playing a narc on a narc and giving a narcissist a taste of his own medicine.

3. You actually realize that it was you all along who was feeling bound in the narcissistic loop whereas you could anytime switch up on a narc just like he does.

4. You get time and energy to focus on other things more rather than dancing to the tunes of the narc.

5. You can ultimately get rid of a narc. A narc suffocated with no to least and irregular attention, that too, not on his whims and caprices, makes him run away (at least for a long time).

CONs:

  1. Narc will accuse you of being a narc and create drama everywhere he could get sympathy against you.
  2. Narc will go mad and may abuse you as well to get that negative attention that he is desperately seeking.
  3. Narc will use all of his tactics like gaslighting, blame-game, triangulation, pity-party, love-bombing, against you to bring you back to that narc-puppet, narc-supply loop.
  4. If the other person is not a narc, you may prove to be a narc. So, be careful and first of all be very sure that that person is a pathological narc. Do not jump to conclusions based on assumptions and on few subtle signs only.

Be Careful:

Narc will do DRAMA, manipulation, accusations, TRIANGULATION, name-calling, whenever n wherever he could. Let him be. Enjoy the show of what we call in psychology ‘Monkey Dance’.

Should you control emotions??

Many people say that you need to control your emotions. Like there is a need to look cool, calm, and composed in front of others. They are not wrong, but they are not completely right either.

We need to feel emotions; and if they are intense enough to be a block to our rationality, they shall be released as well, and the sooner the better.

Releasing emotions may be done in various ways- Slow and steadily, indirectly, directly, fast and abruptly, peacefully, violently, in a mixed manner.

Do you need to release and regulate emotions?? Yes, but you do not need to either release or regulate them. Release and regulation are not contradictory to each-other.

Do you need to adopt a pattern/way to release/regulate your emotions?? No. Although, you may prefer to adopt a particular pattern but it’s not a need to stick to only one way/manner to either release or regulate those emotions.

Different situations and different people strike/evoke different emotions and they can be released and/or regulated in different manners; and a same emotion can be released in different ways at different times in similar situations.

The target is to soothe your mind as per your requirement keeping in mind your time and energy level and again having a good control over your amygdala.

Don’t listen to one-directional limited and closed minded people’s advice when it comes to subjective terms like emotions, feelings, love, life, success, etc. Your way is the right way until it starts interfering with others’ right(s).Any contradictory contention is welcome but uneducated beliefs and replies through senseless posts on instagram etc. are unaccepted and barred.

(Note: I wrote this 16 hours ago but am sharing now. Clearing this so that readers know that I am in no way starting/continuing a streak of banter with the GASLIGHTING SHIT-SHOW of a TOXIC BITCH on instagram and/or wordpress and/or otherwise.)

Notice keenly.

Notice how people go mad because you are not going mad; and how they are in pieces because you are in peace, even after you gave up on opportunities that they wanted to spoil.

Who actually succeeded??

Who got served by Karma?? BOTH !!

#26 My Bestie

List five things you do for fun.

  1. Killing people in my head
  2. Imagining that I am a vampire
  3. Talking to animals
  4. Communicating with aliens
  5. Lying.
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