A wise person once said, “Don’t let anyone know what you are doing until you have done it, and when you have done it, do some more. Let them wonder why you are so happy, stable-minded and content. Add only that one or those to your closest circle who earned it in your lowest times, and make everyone else wonder why you are so happy, stable and content and say no more and nothing more.”
I love it when narcissists Vent openly on social media, for a small fraction of time, it feels like tables have turned. The way the victims want to talk their heart out, wanting others to know what they are going through or have gone through, and still being unable to let it all out because the intensity of the abuse they feel is unmatched with any words or any expression of it, it finally feels, that the relentless banter or the self-expression or uncontrolled trail of arguments by the narcissists against the psychologists or against the people who want to enlighten others against narcissism and bullying, is the way of narcissists for venting it all out about what they have or had gone through.
But.. Let me clear this. It’s a HOAX. Narcissists never vent. They do not have that much emotional depth in them. They do not think straight about how others may or may not feel about them. Actually, narcissists have nothing to do with what effect they may have upon anyone because of their actions. They love to abuse secretly. All of their so-called venting out is just a form of manipulation, the manipulation for everyone to see how bad or evil is a psychologist who has been making innocent people aware of the nature of a narcissist, and the trial of manipulation of the psychologist himself/herself so that they may think that the narc is innocent. So, narcissists do not truly vent regarding the real implication of the word, they just make it look like venting to gather attention and divert others’ attention from the real venting of the victim(s).
Yayee..Fours Years Anniversary of my blogging on this website. 🎉🎊 I didn’t remember that I had started blogging on this beautiful day of Gandhi Jayanti (Mahatma Gandhi’s Birthday).
Although, I took a gap of about two years in between but the journey has been amazing with about 1200 fellow bloggers (as of now) who read and appreciated my poetry, blogs, quotes, digital-art and photography as and when I updated as well as born with and understood my highs and lows.
I hope I won’t disappoint and will resume blogging with much better content. I am on a mental break from all kinds of social interactions for some time.
A Big Thank with a virtual hug to all of you from the bottom of my heart for your patience and appreciation throughout the time. It means a lot to me. ❤🤗🌞🙏💖💫💜💙🌠🎊🎉🎂
Time travel is possible or impossible?
According to me, Time travel is impossible, because time itself is a theoretic concept. Movement of earth is divided in equal intervals and is called time by humans and everything is made relative to it to understand everything.
People started thinking that time too exists as something substantial.
What is time? When earth is moving in a particular forward direction in the galaxy as well as along the galaxy, it is actually time travel for human beings without realizing it. Every micro-second is just an inverval of distance travelled, although it is measured now with the count of radiations.
One may think that they can travel faster if they can make a machine that can travel faster than light, but then as well, only that machine will reach a point faster than earth at a place in space where they cannot see the future or the past of events happening on earth in TIME’s past or future because the things n people on earth would be moving in space at only earth’s pace, and thus according to earth’s respective current time at every moment of its movement.
I guess someone with a lack of proper understanding may try to contradict this with some old-school theory but the reality n practicality of concepts matter more than those theories based more on unproved assumptions than on facts.
I don’t know who needs to hear this but the grass is still greener here and your envy n toxicity is not gonna change that. Grass stays abundantly green because of Karma- Intentions and actions combined. Watch yours or you will be left barren completely.
The reason why I call some things like exercising BASIC? It is called so because it is basic. I used to exercise a lot daily apart from doing other PRODUCTIVE things and earning money and studying. The screenshot above from the last year is just for the example. I used to do a lot of strength training as well like tricep extentions 100 reps with 2 kg dumbell with each arm, 500 tummy twists, 20 planks, 30 squats, 200 arms rotations etc. each in one set every day, apart from cycling 2-3 hours or walking for at least 10,000 steps.
I talk about things and categorise according to My Level of doing things. So, if any insecure person thinks that I do it to demean, it’s that person’s problem and manipulation to show other people that I am the toxic one whereas hiding that person’s own toxicity n manipulation. When I want to DEMEAN AS A REACTION or keep one in one’s place, I do it very openly, exposing myself to open criticism and innuendos of a psychopath narc n flying monkeys.
So keep in mind that what I say is about me n if a psychopath wants to copy and/or compare to provoke me, the reaction will be there. Not always though, because I usually consider such dummies DEAD. The narc who provokes me secretly, do it so to get those reactions or wants to be compared all the time and FAILS in being the better one, then goes on to get some SYMPATHY from others. It’s like either GODLY or POOR VICTIM.
I describe myself authentically be it in anger, love, or any other emotion. I am not fond of being FAKE n HYPOCRITE, nor I can keep such people around nor people who associate with a FAKE n HYPOCRITE.
I am sorry if you stay in flight or fight mode and also think that it’s your fault. Just a friendly reminder that it’s not your fault and you also can feel safe. Just change the people around you and choose the right ones who can make you feel safe physically and mentally.
Honestly, I like people who are intimidating to many. They are the ones who keep a lot of mediocre shit at bay without even doing anything specifically for that. 😂
My best and the worst coping strategy for emotional turmoil or trauma so far:
Having 10 other things to do, so that whenever I feel anything emotional, I can say to myself, “I haven’t got any time for this shit”.
Yeah, when you keep so many rational things to stress you out, why worry about emotions?? 😂🤣
Psychological Advice- It works for a short-term, doesn’t work in the long run. Also, if you cannot take mental and physical pressure, do not even try this on yourself. Deal with your emotions by understanding them. I also do that whenever I have the energy to do so. ❤
This post is just to thank everyone here who stays patient with me. Sometimes, I cannot interact via comments because I feel shut down due to personal reasons n find it difficult to talk to anyone. Sometimes, you all have to deal with my negative posts involving anguish described in anger n rage. My family as well has to deal with my furious nature. Although, it has reduced drastically in comparison to the last year but still I feel that nobody else than me deserves to deal with those vibes. The darkness should stay with the person to whom it belongs and be released too in a healthy way. I find writing and painting as the mediums to release the negativity that engulfs me, from which I am unable to release it though Art as I can only paint good stuff. It’s only through writing that I can release my worst of dark emotions, and it’s really very important for me to release anger, otherwise I get sick physically as well (fever n low immunity). So, I just want to thank you all (including my family, whom I apologised for my behaviour) for being there in my lows as well, and not only in the times I write something good having some good vibes in it, full of love and beauty. 💜💖