A gap of two years really puts you far behind where you could be in blogging. I had started the blog in the second half of the year 2017, and just after writing 4-5 blogs, I left the website untouched for about two years and began writing again in oct-nov, 2019. I had started writing on this website just because I wanted to try something new and blogging was one on my bucket-list at that time. I used to think that one could just write something like poetry or interesting blogs and leave it as that only. I had no idea that to progress in blogging one has had to be interactive with the fellow bloggers, until recently. But I have a dilemma regarding this. Does it really matter how much you interact or communicate with others on your blogs or you can let your blogs speak for you specially when you are not a talker?? The gap really did put me far behind where I could be by now, but apart from that, am I doing it the right way or not, this question really strikes me hard sometimes. I really want to enhance my blogging skills while not wanting to be occupied with it for a good amount of time, as even now, this is not my first or even 5th priority.
Anybody who keeps on saying “everything will fall into place with time” actually has no idea what the fuck he is doing and he is trying to blindfold you, trying to make you a passive observer.
It’s your life. Take action. Do whatever the F you want. There is no need to wait for the things to fall into place. Moreover, think about it- which thing that person thinks would fall into which place?? Probably, nothing in your favour and everything in that person’s favour?? Because that person is living his life, and wants you to just wait for the things to fall in his favourite place !!
Sometimes I really wonder if I do not know how to keep an audience hooked by providing a very little value or I have too many envious people around, as I know I provide quality work for sure, be it in photography, drawing, painting, cooking, poetry or two-liners/one-liner for fun.. What’s really wrong?? Where do I need to improve?? Can I get a review the way you think I can improve the quality of my work?? I would love to read about your opinions, but please, provide constructive criticism only…..
Let’s talk a little about Israel-Palestine issue today. Many of you are already aware of the situation as well as history of this issue, even if not, then you may search about it on youtube or google and know about the unbiased history from a few sources.
Here I want to talk about that part here which many biased people are not or won’t talk about. Both the sides were made to cooperate by their leaders as well as by the United Nations in those times but those leaders of both the sides were Assassinated at different times by their own ethnic/religious bigots because the BIGOTS of both the ETHNIC AND RELIGIOUS BELIEFS did not want the other side’s people to survive.
No matter what anyone says, it is ETHNIC/RELIGIOUS VIOLENCE because of the on-going hatred from both the sides against the other since decades. Was it really that difficult otherwise to do partition of a little piece of land??
They themselves chose violence and chose the idea of the Survival of the Fittest adopting terrorist activities when they could adopt peaceful treaties to settle their issue.
So now, when Israel has used their link with the US and is winning in their Survival strategy, how can Palestinians demand pity from whole of the world??
It’s like you will fight till you are winning and when you start losing and dying, you run to the authorities??
Do you really think this is justice??
Let’s talk about humanity here. When you kill people, including children, of the other side, then it’s completely fine; and when the people of your own side/your religion/your ethnicity begin to die n lose their homes n hearth, then you want to be humane??
My point is,, when both the sides chose VIOLENCE and SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST, LET THE FITTEST SURVIVE NOW, SPECIALLY WHEN NEITHER OF THE SIDES IS DOWN PEACEFUL SETTLEMENT OF THE LAND.
The UN’s plan of distribution of land between both the sides was quite a good one, but these people had chosen their own destruction, and they should not play the pity party now.
Ask for humanity only if you were humane when it was your time to show it.
NOTE: I am not taking any one side, what I have written is actually against taking any one side. And, US taking the side of Israel should be condemned rather than condemning Israel taking the help of US.
Don’t mind but there is sickness in those people who move the length and breadth of social media to help the people of their own community only. Not saying that they shouldn’t do everything to help them but What about others?? Ain’t they human beings??
Help without any prejudice. Be human before anything else. Community barriers sound acceptable only upto peaceful rituals, not during calamities when everyone needs the same oxygen and beds and plasma. If you can help one person, you can help many more.
(This is with regard to the on-going pathetic situation in India’s hospitals wherein there is a stark shortage of beds and oxygen cylinders and plasma donation for covid-19 patients, the number of which is rising vertically day-by-day. I cannot even describe the sad reality of the situation that may give goose-bumps to anyone seeing the hue n cry of the family members of the patients suffering from the oxygen shortage and of those who have departed due to the covid-19 infection just because their families could not arrange the same for them.)
A post has been making rounds all over the social media platforms which asks “would you delete your social media account for your relationship??”
First of all, why is anyone so desperate to make someone delete the social media account?? It sounds quite fishy. Who doesn’t like to be entertained in the free time?? Is it really a benchmark to prove one’s dedication in a relationship. I think not. It’s actually quite manipulative to even ask such a thing. If the relationship is strong already, then social media should have nothing much to do with it.
Secondly, even if the one who has been asked to do so, deletes his/her accounts, what is the probability that the person who has asked about it is going to do the same?? Some people just want to control others with such difficult and impossibly set standards. The person asking or expecting this from their partner may as well make fake accounts, cheat on their partner all the time and expect their partner to stay oblivious about it.
It makes very little sense other than that.
Gone are the day when it was quite easy to live naturally, without having a presence on the internet. Even if one stays away from it for a long time, still, at some point of time, one may need presence over some web platform.
To be honest, mostly it is done by a narcissist to control their partner. Narcissists roam around freely, even on the internet, confining their partner in a very little world of happiness that they show them. It is all fake. They cheat on them but do not want their partner to know about it. So, they show off their partner as an ideal dedicated one who kept their relationship above everything else, so that their(narc’s) ego may get boosted as a result of having such an ideal best partner in front of the others and side-by-side their lurking into and tresspassing into others’ boundaries keep on happening without ever being caught by their partner.
Don’t fall prey to such stupid words. They don’t mean a thing. More importantly, if something doesn’t feel right, you do not need to do it and if your choices sabotage the relationship, the problem is the weakness of the relationship, not your choices which are quite normal according to your contemporary times.
Honestly, I never realised that I had a phone cover, already provided by the company, in the phone packaging box. I might have seen it long ago when I unpacked it, but forgot about it for a long time. Hmmm.. That’s weird.. I just opened the pack today to get this little key-like pin that is called Eject Pin in order to add one SD Card to my mobile phone. I love this little cutie and the way they placed it in that holder. It looks so elegant !!
Moreover, I am loving to see the whole pack themed in deep black. My mobile is of golden colour, although before that, I usually had almost all of my productive devices in black colour only. But this time I opted for golden, I loved its look and now, I am loving its box a lot. It looks quite classy.
I am sharing this because I am really admiring this classy look. Sometimes, you are not so stunned by anything filthy costly but pretty much by something so casual and simple little things like this black beauty. 🖤
Believe it or not, I am obsessed with the colours be it in nature, clothes or devices, and I genuinely look into the productivity level of any device. ❤
Kissing your partner before going to work enhances your mood and capability of working for the day.
Can’t wait for those days..
Before work kiss..
After work kiss..
Good night kiss..
And many more in between.. 😍
With the same person..😜
Honestly, I really pity on people who compete n compare with everyone they come across but themselves; you may see them stuck at the same place for years when it comes to their mental, physical or career state but they will always compete with anyone seeming to be doing better than them at the surface level like only at the looks or show-off level yet being completely unable to compete with those same individuals at any other level.