Would you delete your social media account??- A VIEW-POINT

A post has been making rounds all over the social media platforms which asks “would you delete your social media account for your relationship??”

First of all, why is anyone so desperate to make someone delete the social media account?? It sounds quite fishy. Who doesn’t like to be entertained in the free time?? Is it really a benchmark to prove one’s dedication in a relationship. I think not. It’s actually quite manipulative to even ask such a thing. If the relationship is strong already, then social media should have nothing much to do with it.

Secondly, even if the one who has been asked to do so, deletes his/her accounts, what is the probability that the person who has asked about it is going to do the same?? Some people just want to control others with such difficult and impossibly set standards. The person asking or expecting this from their partner may as well make fake accounts, cheat on their partner all the time and expect their partner to stay oblivious about it.

It makes very little sense other than that.

Gone are the day when it was quite easy to live naturally, without having a presence on the internet. Even if one stays away from it for a long time, still, at some point of time, one may need presence over some web platform.

To be honest, mostly it is done by a narcissist to control their partner. Narcissists roam around freely, even on the internet, confining their partner in a very little world of happiness that they show them. It is all fake. They cheat on them but do not want their partner to know about it. So, they show off their partner as an ideal dedicated one who kept their relationship above everything else, so that their(narc’s) ego may get boosted as a result of having such an ideal best partner in front of the others and side-by-side their lurking into and tresspassing into others’ boundaries keep on happening without ever being caught by their partner.

Don’t fall prey to such stupid words. They don’t mean a thing. More importantly, if something doesn’t feel right, you do not need to do it and if your choices sabotage the relationship, the problem is the weakness of the relationship, not your choices which are quite normal according to your contemporary times.

SPECIFIC URGENT NOTE..

There are people who hate me, and want anyone and everyone I like in real or am/was a fan of whose work, to hate me as well. So, to get that end, they use my way of talking, my vocabulary and my communication style. It’s not me. I have never tried to torture anyone mentally or socially through fake accounts like that. But, I am seeing that a lot that whosoever I follow or followed in the past on any social media platform is going through similar experience of bullying/comments on one’s personal life. Even if those people on whose accounts those haters comment like that may not know me, still the hatred in those psychopaths mind is so ingrained that they want to abuse any and every person whom I like in any way, no matter from how far.

I don’t even know what these psychopaths want, but then, you know psychopaths have no reasoning capacity in them. They just like to spread hatred. And this is the particular kind, narcissistic, who want to make the blame be drawn upon me (because of same communication style), just in case, anyone would read those comments. Otherwise, just imagine for once, if I had to make a fake account and bully anyone, then why would have I used my own communication style by which I could be easily recognised?? Can you understand criminalistic and psychopathic mind?? I CAN. I have experience as well as educational knowledge and degrees, both in psychology and criminology. You have to deal with them as any hardened criminal who has yet not be convicted.

Block those accounts, report them or best, report them to police through cyber crime portal of your area in case the similar harrassment/bullying happens to you again. There is no use of ignoring them. They need to learn a good lesson now.

Thanks for reading !!