Lessons in your 30s about your 20s.

Lessons you will learn in your 30s about your twenties:

  1. Partying hard is important but working harder is even more important.
  2. Planning in your early twenties about your next 20 years could be life changing.
  3. Go with the flow is the stupidest and useless concept, specially in career.
  4. Knowledge gained in twenties never goes in vain.
  5. It’s better to build a body in your twenties that can sustain anything in your later life for decades. Eating clean and healthy, working out really hard, getting sunshine and rain, breathing fresh air, etc. regularly could put you above most of the folks of your age who were into eating a lot of junk food, consuming alcohol, smoking, etc.
  6. Those stupid crushes were nothing but a distraction.
  7. Making connections just for the sake of career is really important.
  8. Strategic expenditure and investments could put you ahead 90% of the people in 30s.
  9. You could save a lot of wasted time and energy you spent on fake people, fake relationships, fake friendships.
  10. You could be at least 10 times better if you had started preparing 10-12 months before any expected opportunity for your success and could succeed as well.
  11. One career is not enough. One source of income is not enough.
  12. Anybody can switch up on you, no matter who; even closest of family members for whom you may always fight.
  13. People really didn’t matter and should not have mattered as much as you thought they did.
  14. Who thinks what about you and your actions does not matter at all when you have reasons for each of your action and you are moving with the right and ethical purpose in mind.
  15. Choosing your battles wisely is ultra-important. Letting some people live in their lies, misery, and stupidity, and going on with your head held high could save you a lot of mental energy.
  16. Getting credits and appreciation for the work done by you was so necessary, be it in any form- reciprocated favour, certificates, money, or expanding the word about you.
  17. Waiting for your love to be fulfilled by the other person as well kept you stuck for a long time. You could rather find the right partner and love could happen later on between you two.
  18. Hoeing around many people kept you away from the best one for you, that you could have, that could be life changing for you for the better.
  19. Humility and kindness were important but you should not have let people walk over you or use you or your sources.
  20. Expecting anything from others is like blocking your own efficiency.
  21. World runs on give and take; and people would keep on taking if you are a giver without boundaries.
  22. You live only once is the utterly non-sense concept. You actually die only once and can live multiple lives and get a taste of different cultures, careers, people (as friends or acquaintances) but in a systematic manner. There is no point in spoiling your life though YOLO.
  23. The fear of missing out is just a concept driven out of peer pressure. You never missed out on anything when you were completely sure that you didn’t want that thing or event to happen at that time.
  24. Life is too short. Never leave an opportunity to speak your mind. Express emotions and let others know your thoughts without any fear of mis-judgements. 95-99% of the people misjudged your silence anyway.
  25. Ignoring your creative side for the sake of your logical side and rational career could have made you feel frustrated for years.
  26. You didn’t have to prove yourself to any single person on this planet about anything.
  27. Learning skills were important but are always overly hyped. If you had taken enough time in understanding the working of anything, practicing it could take very little time. Studying and educating yourself intensively as well as extensively over your area of interest could really lead you towards expertise in it.
  28. Jump first, think later is a stupid phrase. Thinking a lot before jumping into something could save you years or your entire life And from feelings like guilt, regret, and resentment. Don’t be driven by id.
  29. One partner was really enough. You just didn’t have it in you to stay loyal or to be patient to find the right one.
  30. Putting yourself first is never selfish. When you do help in terms of work, therapy, money, out of kindness, people start feeling entitled to it. People on top positions call it charity actually.

444…..

I have been posting micro as well as full-fledged blogs on this website daily and today is the 444th day of blogging. I want to thank all of my fellow-bloggers for appreciating my writings by liking, commenting, and following.

Since I have started finding blogging boring and I am more inclined towards real life, I have decided to discontinue blogging on a daily basis. I would still be posting here, reading all of your amazing blogs, and would show my presence but that would be irregular.

As a last note, perhaps I may continue blogging on my other website i.e. http://www.yourchoicestlifestyle.com but that too would be irregular. Kindly follow that website for more updates and share too. I would also be sharing your amazing blogs over there on a weekly or bi-weekly basis.

A Big Heartfelt THANK to all of my beautiful fellow-bloggers, especially the regular ones- You are the realest support, THANK YOU IN TONSβ£β€πŸ§‘πŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ–€πŸ’–πŸ’«

Stay Safe..β€πŸ’«

Keep Rising..β€πŸ’«

Live Well..β€πŸ’«

Digital Art-Perspectives.

Honestly, I drew it without any thought and after looking at it a few times, different perspectives started striking my mind.

(Note: Kindly do not use the image or copy the concept. The copyrights are reserved by Preet. Thank you.πŸ™‚)

A Priority

When we want us to be a priority in others’ life, we are not really making ourself a priority.

Preet

Thought of the day

When you pray on a daily basis that whosoever took and is taking you as an option be removed from your life, don’t grieve too much on those who abruptly get thrown out of your life. Universe has been delivering according to your needs.

I know being a human it’s really difficult to have a grip over emotions when you are wronged, deceived, taken for granted, unappreciated, made to feel not good enough, unworthy of pure love and/or misunderstood without obvious causes, but you can make it firm in your mind that that shit won’t slide again in your life and then you can give yourself all the time, attention, energy, and love you need.

If you can love the other person who did not deserve it, you can love yourself much more than that. Make yourself a priority, not only on this particular time period but forever. And one day you will be so glad that you didn’t give up on yourself and have healed from all the stuff that was meant to break you.

Are you really humble or you just have no idea what you are doing in life?

People with vision become more humble when they succeed in the manifestation of their vision as they know how many struggles it took them to reach there. People with useless unhealthy ego become humble only when they fail as they are left with no other choice as they become perplexed or stay stuck in that place having no to little vision about what to do next.

It’s not only a difference between vision and ego. It’s also a difference between dominant types with a vision and submissive types having no vision. The latter ones usually run towards small-term and superficial goals like “I want to be famous”, “I want to earn money”, “I want to be popular” etc. and if you ask them exactly what they want to do and how, they usually have no clear answer. The former ones the those who have a long-term and large scale vision. They do not go behind short-term dopamine boosters. They are more humble when they keep on succeeding as they know that their success is just one of the steps to fulfil their vision, and their long-term vision is not only the self-serving one like those so-called failed humble ones. Even when they fail, they cannot leave their warrior spirit which the latter submissive types with no vision get intimidated by and can’t digest.

Last but not the least, my views seem to be arrogant to every hypocrite who is humble only when he/she is failing or losing, and uber egoistic n never humble when winning.

Contending??

When the main source of contention gets eliminated and the contention still persists without any viable notion, how much a logical person is going to engage in that loop of incongruent predicaments rotating just to prove some sort of superiority complex??

The answers may vary according to the level of consciousness one has reached. Some people move one step back to get themselves out of that abyss of illusions and put their best foot forward in something of value in real life, whereas some people stay stuck in that loop, hence mediocrity. Choose to be the former, my friend, out of mediocrity.

Law of attraction in summation.

You attract your own energy, nothing from the outside. If you do not know your worth, you attract people who consider you worthless. If you do not want something to work for you, you won’t get it. If you have some traits in your subconscious mind for a partner, every other kind of person will be repelled/removed from your life sooner or later. If you want to change yourself, you have to visualize that change in you. If you want to become something, you have to believe it in your whole being. That’s all law of attraction is. You attract your energy, your thoughts, your vibes, your aura to you.
Now, a few of you may think “I am a healer. Usually toxic people get attracted to me. I don’t think this is how law of attraction works. I never wanted that.”
My answer is your innate nature is that of a healer and toxic people need spiritual healing and your mind subconsciously desires somebody to heal, so, toxic people get attracted to you unknowingly. But you can save yourself by creating boundaries n by directing your energy to be more specific to heal yourself first or the innocent victims of toxic abusers or nobody at all particularly and by only teaching people how to heal themselves.

(8th jan, 2021)

Manipulative person’s dislike.

A manipulator narcissist dislikes/hates someome with high Self-respect, because the latter leaves the time the former’s game of manipulation and triangulation is suspected and that person refuses to be a part of that drama and mind-play.

A date like this β€

Cheerfully glasses click,

Soft fabric,

Fragrant breeze,

Dim lights,

Aurora sky a pleasant surprise,

Romantic music,

Looking into each-other’s soul through eyes.

(Original publishing date: 4th april,2021)

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