Do Narcissists VENT?

I love it when narcissists Vent openly on social media, for a small fraction of time, it feels like tables have turned. The way the victims want to talk their heart out, wanting others to know what they are going through or have gone through, and still being unable to let it all out because the intensity of the abuse they feel is unmatched with any words or any expression of it, it finally feels, that the relentless banter or the self-expression or uncontrolled trail of arguments by the narcissists against the psychologists or against the people who want to enlighten others against narcissism and bullying, is the way of narcissists for venting it all out about what they have or had gone through.

But.. Let me clear this. It’s a HOAX. Narcissists never vent. They do not have that much emotional depth in them. They do not think straight about how others may or may not feel about them. Actually, narcissists have nothing to do with what effect they may have upon anyone because of their actions. They love to abuse secretly. All of their so-called venting out is just a form of manipulation, the manipulation for everyone to see how bad or evil is a psychologist who has been making innocent people aware of the nature of a narcissist, and the trial of manipulation of the psychologist himself/herself so that they may think that the narc is innocent. So, narcissists do not truly vent regarding the real implication of the word, they just make it look like venting to gather attention and divert others’ attention from the real venting of the victim(s).

Would you delete your social media account??- A VIEW-POINT

A post has been making rounds all over the social media platforms which asks “would you delete your social media account for your relationship??”

First of all, why is anyone so desperate to make someone delete the social media account?? It sounds quite fishy. Who doesn’t like to be entertained in the free time?? Is it really a benchmark to prove one’s dedication in a relationship. I think not. It’s actually quite manipulative to even ask such a thing. If the relationship is strong already, then social media should have nothing much to do with it.

Secondly, even if the one who has been asked to do so, deletes his/her accounts, what is the probability that the person who has asked about it is going to do the same?? Some people just want to control others with such difficult and impossibly set standards. The person asking or expecting this from their partner may as well make fake accounts, cheat on their partner all the time and expect their partner to stay oblivious about it.

It makes very little sense other than that.

Gone are the day when it was quite easy to live naturally, without having a presence on the internet. Even if one stays away from it for a long time, still, at some point of time, one may need presence over some web platform.

To be honest, mostly it is done by a narcissist to control their partner. Narcissists roam around freely, even on the internet, confining their partner in a very little world of happiness that they show them. It is all fake. They cheat on them but do not want their partner to know about it. So, they show off their partner as an ideal dedicated one who kept their relationship above everything else, so that their(narc’s) ego may get boosted as a result of having such an ideal best partner in front of the others and side-by-side their lurking into and tresspassing into others’ boundaries keep on happening without ever being caught by their partner.

Don’t fall prey to such stupid words. They don’t mean a thing. More importantly, if something doesn’t feel right, you do not need to do it and if your choices sabotage the relationship, the problem is the weakness of the relationship, not your choices which are quite normal according to your contemporary times.

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Me checking out social media for a little sadness and disappointment because my life is going smooth otherwise and I can’t handle that kind of boredom.

Who can relate to this?? 😂

SICK ONES.

I guess half of my life will be spent saying “Oh no..Dumbfuck..That was not for you..” to a lot many people..

Isn’t it very obvious when one is writing something on a public platform that it’s written for anyone and everyone who can read it?? AND isn’t true that if it doesn’t resonate with a situation with someone, it’s not for them?? Isn’t it right that I won’t have a beef with anyone for no reason and won’t write something against anyone if I don’t have a clear beef with that person?? I mean, how do people even take some things so personally?? Specially those whom I never connected with anywhere (on social media or in real) and have had nothing to do with..

Seriously, it’s exasperating to know that some people are too stupid that they take everything on them and have beef for no reason. If they have problems with their own self unconsciously, they shall seek professional psycho-therapeutic help rather than beefing with other people for no reason.

But.. One thing is assured that those people who are having problem with what I write or do, had hatred, competition and beef with me since a long time, the time I had no idea about their sickness.

SPECIFIC URGENT NOTE..

There are people who hate me, and want anyone and everyone I like in real or am/was a fan of whose work, to hate me as well. So, to get that end, they use my way of talking, my vocabulary and my communication style. It’s not me. I have never tried to torture anyone mentally or socially through fake accounts like that. But, I am seeing that a lot that whosoever I follow or followed in the past on any social media platform is going through similar experience of bullying/comments on one’s personal life. Even if those people on whose accounts those haters comment like that may not know me, still the hatred in those psychopaths mind is so ingrained that they want to abuse any and every person whom I like in any way, no matter from how far.

I don’t even know what these psychopaths want, but then, you know psychopaths have no reasoning capacity in them. They just like to spread hatred. And this is the particular kind, narcissistic, who want to make the blame be drawn upon me (because of same communication style), just in case, anyone would read those comments. Otherwise, just imagine for once, if I had to make a fake account and bully anyone, then why would have I used my own communication style by which I could be easily recognised?? Can you understand criminalistic and psychopathic mind?? I CAN. I have experience as well as educational knowledge and degrees, both in psychology and criminology. You have to deal with them as any hardened criminal who has yet not be convicted.

Block those accounts, report them or best, report them to police through cyber crime portal of your area in case the similar harrassment/bullying happens to you again. There is no use of ignoring them. They need to learn a good lesson now.

Thanks for reading !!

False Support.

One thing people don’t get about me is that they think that they have been supporting me for my success or something like that..is it really making me feel supported??

Tell me one thing..what exactly you are doing for me for that?? A few likes here n there?? You think that really makes me successful?? And does that mean rooting for me in any way?? I find it quite useless. Before you came into my life I was successful as much as I wanted to be at that point in time n when you are gone I can still do it for myself to whatsoever level and the way I want it.

You need to stop feeling too good about yourself by doing something inside of your very comfortable zone which I do not need or crave for as you can never provide me what I really need. Stop Over-Estimating Yourself In My Life. You just want to feel good about yourself, nothing else.