Disruption..

And if we can make it together,

What’s making the gap so wide?

(28th dec,2020)

Boundaries with an ex are important.

I don’t know how people make it look otherwise but not creating a complete boundary with an ex who still has feelings for you is a disrespect to your current partner. Being friends with an ex is okay when both of you have ‘moved on’ in every sense of the phrase. ‘Been there, done that’. I blocked people completely from my life till they learned that they did not and could never have access to me like before no matter how much I loved them in the past. Boundaries are crucial. Do not play innocent whereas in reality playing with two; trying to get security from one in every sense and mental satisfaction from another. It never ends well.

Cheating.

Sometimes generally,

But particularly for the demixesual,

Emotional cheating always equals physical,

Only if you did not share a bed

Doesn’t matter

Giving those emotions to someone else for a long time

You lead your relationship to end dead.