Personal view-point on a widely used quotation.

This is one of a few quotes that really irritate me.

First of all, quotes are some statements made by different people based on their personal view-points, opinions, situations and life in general. Like one size does not fit all, one quotation cannot be true completely or suit all.

Secondly, quotations are mostly one-liners or a paragraph which are generally not backed up by an explanation on why they have been written, so, they create a lot of misunderstandings about their exact meaning. Like digit 6 can be read as 9 when inversed or when read by two people standing in opposite directions, the same goes with such quotations.

Thirdly, coming to this particular quotation, it is not even a quotation as such. It is just a line, from a novel which I am sure is beautifully written and, must have it’s backing in the novel itself. This quote actually refers to one’s potential in relationships. Here, the word ‘potential’ means how a person is thought to be behaving in the future by a person who has been seeking that first mentioned person as a partner considering his/her probable qualities to come to the fore in the expecting person’s view-point. It has not talked about the general potential of anybody as a person outside from the expectation of a relationship.

Fourthly, considering it even as an expected potential in a person about his/her qualities regarding relationship, it sounds a demeaning quote that says that one ‘has to date their reality’. Here, what if somebody does not even know one’s reality? What if one person’s own judgement is wrong about the outer world in general because of their internal biases? Be it in relationships or otherwise, if one person cannnot accept other’s flaws, then that person really does not deserve anyone to be with them when they themself show their own flaws. And, nobody is flawless.

Last but not the least, this line is actually meaning to reiterate to somebody that whom they like actually currently does not deserve them and that person should not let his/her good view-point about that person over-power what that person is actually showing them (which can actually be bad traits).

I get irritated with quotes because of their incapacity to make things clear due to lack of explanation, desire to create more of confusions, and still pressing them upon others as something of eternal value.

(1st March, 2020)

Preferences.

I would rather die of eating chocolates than depression,

Of loving too much than not loving at all,

Of reading too much useful n useless stuff than ignorance,

Of over-thinking than under-working brain,

Of intensity than a dull life that others train.

(19th Sept, 2020)

Once an Avid-Reader..

Just a list of Books I have had read in the past, online. The list is not exhaustive as there were books and series of books like Harry Potter series-my first ever novel reading (in school n college), Pride and Prejudice(college), Othello(college), etc. and then donated those books as I didn’t feel like reading anything again, once read. The tick marked ones in the given list are still downloaded in my google books play directory, others with the mark of ‘downloadable’ are those which I removed from my downloaded list, but which can be downloaded again.

I am sharing this because I was such a avid-reader of novels that touched my heart and piqued my mind’s curiosity to delve into them more and more, that I even finished reading two-three books of the same novel series in a single day. But then I stopped reading novels about two years ago and other non-fictional books by the end of 2019. The reason is purely lack of interest. I just stopped delving into and/or dwelling into the fantasy world, because when you read a novel, you somehow can connect yourself to the characters and I didn’t feel like doing that anymore because my personal life’s situations got changed drastically, and thus, I felt that I could never relate to any fiction. Probably, in the future I will be able to connect with and read more of fiction as well as non-fiction, but, as of now, I have bid adieu to this reading addiction, and I am sure that it’s for good. 🙂

PS- Please zoom in the image to read the names of the soft copies of books. I could not write their names as the list is long.

Specific message for fellow bloggers..

Hello, my amazing fellow-bloggers..🤗❤

This is the specific note from me about being active on wordpress. Actually, I am suffering from vertigo from two days (onset on sunday noon and monday) and it’s still continuing and is quite frequent. My brain needs rest. I wanted to tell you all that I will be reading and giving feedback on your amazing blogs on the upcoming sunday. I may read and like your blogs in between, do blog myself or reshare the old ones but it’s taxing on my mind to comment as of now or reply to your beautiful comments on my blogs.

Don’t worry, I am fine otherwise. It’s just normal vertigo. I am having it for the first time, so, I am kinda enjoying it as well. When your head spins for no reason and you try to balance yourself. 🤣 This will go away soon when I’ll be taking proper rest and stay away from much of mental stimulation or stress as I have no other underlying cause for the same like High Blood Pressure or Infection or Low Haemoglobin etc. Maybe an envious evil eye on me wants me to suffer (kidding 🤪). I know I will be back soon whole-heartedly.

Till then, I hope you won’t take my less interaction as inattentiveness. I will still be reading and liking your posts in between but will completely interact on sunday wholeheartedly. I admire you all and your brilliant writings. ❤

Take care.. Stay safe.. Lots of Love 😇❤

Those who can understand an animal’s emotions by looking at its facial expressions are my kind of people.

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