#44 My Bestie💖💖💖💖💖

Daily writing prompt

Describe one positive change you have made in your life.

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I have always had a problem with abusers- mental, social, and physical; and whenever I come across one, I tend to RESPOND (not react) to retaliate so as to stop that BS of those losers, creeps, useless, and negative narcissistic people who keep on targetting utilitarian, well-functioning, kind, empathetic, and good-people. It consumed a lot of my time and energy till the recent past.

Many times I have been the target of those abusers and I still can’t wrap my head around the fact that how people, with whom I have literally nothing to do, can be so jealous, envious, hateful towards me; not to forget to mention those inherently stupid ones who regularly post something related to what I write over here without having a hint of actually what is going on in my life, blatantly writing abusive, incoherent, insensitive stuff and stupid irrelevant advices that nobody asked for.

The positive change that I have made and am still in the process of, is

First of all, not to even take a look at those dumbos and psychopaths,

Secondly, just in case I read their BS after several days or weeks, I am not taking that dumb and abusive stuff personally because if you are such a coward psychopath who can’t say anything to me directly, then I am assuming it certainly is not for me. Only if I would be clearly tagged or mentioned by name anywhere I would take that stuff personally.

Thirdly, I am not going to fight for other people. They are adults and should fight for themselves. Some people are so selfish that they have seen me fighting for them and still ditched me and are envious of me.

Envy is not always about how good you are performing in certain aspect(s) of your life. Sometimes, the biggest reason for envy of hateful _____ against you is for the reason that you are living peacefully, mindfully, and minding your own business.

I am avoiding and ignoring all those_____( you know what that particular word is, think the worst possible you can😉🤣) as long as I can and hopefully, it will continue for months, given that I may lose my epic self-control, being a human.

AMEN!!!!!

Something constant.

I don’t need reasons to be happy, I need reasons to be sad or depressed and I never go on looking for those reasons. That’s why I avoid most people. I am a happy, productive and entertaining person basically but outside energy always (and I really mean ALWAYS) becomes a block or a shadow over my positive n optimistic personality, and then I cannot get rid of it for weeks or months. I have traumas that I still haven’t talked about to a single person on earth (literally nobody even if a few of you know many of my secrets, still there are some things I never tell anyone; neither family, nor bestest of friends in the past nor even a therapist) but I know really well how to give it my all to my future rather than sulking in the past. Attachments happen but I can easily get rid of it, basically being a detached person. Failures happen but I usually have 2-3 more plans after that. My life flows generally as I expect it to. But outside energy always happens to be a block or a shadow over my positives. If I keep any person away, he/she has directly or indirectly added blocks in my life. Why would anyone think that I’d like to invite the same kind of energy in my life again??? I really am not interested in Jumping in the mud or letting people throw it at me and then waste my time n energy in cleaning myself of it whereas the best option always is to look at it, ignore and avoid it and move forward. I don’t know how other people’s mind work, but if they don’t get this basic thing, then it’s completely their problem. I want to keep somebody close who can be equally positive, clear-minded and productive, provided I have not seen the otherwise in them in the past, although everybody can change into the former kind but probability is uncertain to me, and I avoid uncertainty now. I don’t want somebody to give me anything or to add anything to my life, be it happiness or love or anything materialistic. I just want AN EQUAL who knows how to take care of himself, can be happy on his own, manage well his possessions, be productive most of the time, love by heart n soul, has got rid of his past traumas or wounds and related defence mechanisms (although more or less those defences always stay there but it can be dealt with sensibly) and is very clear about what he wants from me, from himself, his career n life in general, so that we can thrive together rather than any of us being a burden on the other. PURE PARTNERSHIP, NEITHER OWNERSHIP NOR PARENT-CHILD DYNAMIC.

(Written and first published on 9th October, 2020)

Uninhibited..

Not desiring to be compartmentalised in one category,

‘She’s her best version’

Completely Self-actualised

will be the only end of my life’s story.

(Published on 8th dec, 21)

High vibrations

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Shun all the negative voices,

they will stay forever in dismay

how could you be abusive to them

Having a positive unique way !

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(7th dec, 21)

Photography- Greenery..

PICTURE CREDITS: PREET (author of this blog)

Focussing on this crisp green

One notices a monochrome,

Sitting besides the same freshness

One’s soul feels truly at home- Preet

(Originally posted on 4th july, 21)

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1000 Fellow Bloggers Connected..

My mobile notification just pinged me with an e-mail noyifying me that I have achieved 1000 followers mark on my website. To me, you all are a wonderful fellow writers community (rather than followers). Just two days ago I was thinking that I could never grow in blogging community. Negative thoughts had engulfed my mind. But thank goodness, I switched to a positive mindset and thought that I could enhance my writing and blogging skills. I am trying and will keep trying. I love to be and called a learner for life, and I hope that you all will stay connected and keep sharing your amazing writings.

When you turn a blind eye to negative and bad people and start connecting with the good ones, your life definitely starts getting better; no matter how small the change be, the change should be in a good direction.

A BIG THANK YOU TO ALL OF YOU FOR BEING SO KIND AND POLITE TO ME AND FOR ALSO APPRECIATING MY WORK. THAT TRULY MEANS A LOT TO ME. 🙏❤

Stay happy and blessed, and keep giving a doze of your mind and heart through words. LOVE AND BLESSING 🙂❤