My problem is that I may tell you that I love you and then would like to stay alone but when I would like to be with you I won’t even say a thing.
Some people cannot handle good emotions at first and I am one of them. It’s because they never or barely got to experience love. So, it feels over-whelming when they get to experience it.
Please don’t tell me how much you self-sabotaged yourself for anybody,
It’s just a form of self abuse;
And if you cannot love yourself enough not to self-sabotage
Then you cannot love anyone else, it’s true,
And to me
showing your weaknesses in the name of love is of no use.
Some of us don’t tell what’s wrong with you because, first of all, you are too old for somebody else to be telling you that; secondly, we know you are not going to change or if you do, that will be quite temporary, so, we really don’t like to waste our words on you.