When you accustom your mind to sensory overload, then even the basic thinking process feels like over-thinking to you, although, all the while you are just Under-thinking.
I have seen many under-thinkers calling themselves over-thinkers just because they are used to impose their belief on one fact over and over again and thus, jumping to conclusions without any proof to validate them whereas they miss all the other possibilities about the same situation or fact, that even any normal thinker can think of.
In fact, some people just want the title of an over-thinker because it makes them look or sound smart or smarter than others.
In most of the cases, those who call themselves over-thinkers are just Over-Feelers and Under-Thinkers.
Over-thinking is analysing every aspect of anything for which you need to first think of all the possibilities related to it and not just impose your beliefs on only one aspect that you or your mind could grasp immediately.
In summation, if you can’t think of more possibilities, over one fact or situation than a normal person, You Are Not An Over-Thinker, rather you are an Under-Thinker.
The fact that one’s love is safe and the wannabe side chicks are sliding off automatically- Satisfaction level-Infinity. The truth is nobody can come between what is truly meant to be and there is a thing called ‘Forcing Stuff’ that most people are used to. How can they ever be okay with being a side option?? I don’t get it. Where does their rationality go? Does their self-respect exist? If they don’t know that they are an option, that is fine, but when they really get the proofs of being Just An Option, just how can they ever think that they can be the Main Character in someone else’s story?? Should just leave and be the main character of their own life rather than eyeing on other people’s love story in order to snatch someone else’s lover. Had they have to be their love, they would have become by now by destiny.
Forcing stuff doesn’t always have to be dramatic or loud in any sense. Sometimes, it’s quite silent like showing off silently doing only those things that they know their target likes, trying to be what kind of person they like despite Not being that person actually, and secretly Competing with their partner in many ways, while not saying a single word that can make those sidelinks Ugly person that they truly are.