I have always had a problem with abusers- mental, social, and physical; and whenever I come across one, I tend to RESPOND (not react) to retaliate so as to stop that BS of those losers, creeps, useless, and negative narcissistic people who keep on targetting utilitarian, well-functioning, kind, empathetic, and good-people. It consumed a lot of my time and energy till the recent past.
Many times I have been the target of those abusers and I still can’t wrap my head around the fact that how people, with whom I have literally nothing to do, can be so jealous, envious, hateful towards me; not to forget to mention those inherently stupid ones who regularly post something related to what I write over here without having a hint of actually what is going on in my life, blatantly writing abusive, incoherent, insensitive stuff and stupid irrelevant advices that nobody asked for.
The positive change that I have made and am still in the process of, is
First of all, not to even take a look at those dumbos and psychopaths,
Secondly, just in case I read their BS after several days or weeks, I am not taking that dumb and abusive stuff personally because if you are such a coward psychopath who can’t say anything to me directly, then I am assuming it certainly is not for me. Only if I would be clearly tagged or mentioned by name anywhere I would take that stuff personally.
Thirdly, I am not going to fight for other people. They are adults and should fight for themselves. Some people are so selfish that they have seen me fighting for them and still ditched me and are envious of me.
Envy is not always about how good you are performing in certain aspect(s) of your life. Sometimes, the biggest reason for envy of hateful _____ against you is for the reason that you are living peacefully, mindfully, and minding your own business.
I am avoiding and ignoring all those_____( you know what that particular word is, think the worst possible you can😉🤣) as long as I can and hopefully, it will continue for months, given that I may lose my epic self-control, being a human.