Be with someone who would never make you feel like a failure but also someone who would go miles with you for your success as well. Going miles with you have nothing to do with doing your part of the work, but moving along with you while you do it for yourself. Also, expect such a partner only if you are willing to be That Person for them as well.
It is said that ambitious people have only two options- A supportive partner or No partner at all, and I can’t agree more.
When the main source of contention gets eliminated and the contention still persists without any viable notion, how much a logical person is going to engage in that loop of incongruent predicaments rotating just to prove some sort of superiority complex??
The answers may vary according to the level of consciousness one has reached. Some people move one step back to get themselves out of that abyss of illusions and put their best foot forward in something of value in real life, whereas some people stay stuck in that loop, hence mediocrity. Choose to be the former, my friend, out of mediocrity.
When you are doing something good or are on the right path, the strongest resistance comes from the devil. When you are not doing anything or are on the wrong path, you become devil’s favourite person and your path stays unhampered and smooth.
Keep this in mind the next time you face utter resistance in your way. And sometimes, people and pages having written “SPIRITUAL” in their heading or titles are the agents of that devil or are that devil themself. Beware the next time you follow any Spiritual entity; The Devil is also a Spirit.