Are you really an Over-Thinker??

People who have the tendency to or the habit of jumping to conclusions often call and categorise themselves as ‘Over-Thinkers‘. I am sorry to break it to you lovely people, but, you are not Over-thinkers; you are actually ‘Under-thinkers‘.

Over-thinking barely has to do with jumping to conclusions without collecting all the sufficient facts of the situation and without considering all the necessary facets of that situation/event. Over-thinkers, in fact, re-consider all the facts and facets of anything despite having readily available conclusions, in front of them, drawn by someone else.

A proud daughter of a man of many skills ❤

A few people think that I am over-qualified whereas I still feel under-qualified, and it’s not because of any outsider; actually, my father was a highly-qualified scholar. He had 3 graduation degrees that were in science, arts, and law, each, n 3 post-grad degrees, in physics, english, and political-science, each. He also wanted to do post-grad in law, with me, but destiny had other plans and he succumbed to throat cancer, and thus, I also couldn’t carry on with my studies for the next one year. But then, I started with post-grad in political science as it was the only options left for me at that time and I was quite interested in it as well. After that, I am still studying, although I had a gap of one and half year in studies due to lockdown and changing areas of research.

Coming back to my father. He was studying law when he had 2 kids and was performing his official duties as well as he was doing job at that time. I mean, how could he manage everything so effortlessly. So much of hard-work on his part stayed unrecognized. He was too humble to believe and many people usually under-estimated him because of that, although those who actually knew him had a blind trust on him and his capabilities, and that’s what he actually deserved. Not to forget to mention, his level of knowledge, both static and current. Asked him about anything, he had the right answers most of the times, in the age when there was no internet, google, wikipedia.. Actually, he used to read 2-3 newspapers first thing in the morning, right after refreshing, Aaaaand books in the fields of novels, ayurveda, science n tech, astrology, etc. AND how can I not mention his talents?? He was really (I mean REALLY!!) good in cooking, sewing, carpentry in terms of repairing any furniture, sketching, gardening, playing musical instrument..in which sketching was truly exceptional as he could draw any still life object within 2-3 minutes with fast and light-strokes and all he needed was any paper and any kind of pencil..

Whole of my life I saw him doing things and asked myself where do you stand?? Yeah.. kind of inferiority complex I could have but instead, he proved to be an inspiration for me to always do and learn more and more.

Life is not forever, but the legacy you leave as a learner and doer is indefinite and forever.

Love or lust born??

You can’t deny the fact that many of us are born out of lust only. 😜

Playful axioms..

Tapping random buttons on the neuron junctions,

The memories get lost on the neural-pathways when fantasy functions.

Non-reciprocal.

Don’t expect me to give you that you could never give me,

And it goes for even consistency..

Yeah.. Coming onto betrayal and lies,

that I still owe you.

Moreover, you want a coy servant,

Not a partner who can challenge you and your mind

Who can only praise you

And to your shortcomings, can forever stay blind.

LOGICAL PRESUMPTIONS.

If you are happy on somebody hating another,

You are stupid; (none of them has anything to do with you)

If you are jealous of somebody loving another,

You are weak; (one of them has definitely nothing to do with you)

If you are envious of somebody’s self-love,

You are an undiagnosed psychopath. (Nobody has anything to do with you)

Conspiracies or evidences?

Isn’t it weird that people believe in conspiracy theories more than evidenced facts?

It’s okay to be suspicious about everything but it’s not okay to not be suspicious about suspicions themselves.

Are you amongst those who believe what can be and not what is??

It is fine to like to explore more of the other sides, but it’s not okay to deny the side clearly visible in front of you.

If you don’t believe your eyes, you may tend to believe the lies, and then you cannot decipher what the truth is, but this assumption can also be untrue as the truth can be far away and different from senses and perception but still observations by the senses matter.

So shitty. 🤣

When you stop giving a shit,

You actually don’t feel the need to announce it.

All the very best.

You put too less of efforts to even catch my attention,

All the best for trying to be a part of my life,

And hats off to you for thinking you will get me

while just being dependent on loyalty displayed by me.

Blasting out.

Faking happiness to make others jealous??

Naah..

Who needs to do that when they can burn with the truth??