You attract your own energy, nothing from the outside. If you do not know your worth, you attract people who consider you worthless. If you do not want something to work for you, you won’t get it. If you have some traits in your subconscious mind for a partner, every other kind of person will be repelled/removed from your life sooner or later. If you want to change yourself, you have to visualize that change in you. If you want to become something, you have to believe it in your whole being. That’s all law of attraction is. You attract your energy, your thoughts, your vibes, your aura to you. Now, a few of you may think “I am a healer. Usually toxic people get attracted to me. I don’t think this is how law of attraction works. I never wanted that.” My answer is your innate nature is that of a healer and toxic people need spiritual healing and your mind subconsciously desires somebody to heal, so, toxic people get attracted to you unknowingly. But you can save yourself by creating boundaries n by directing your energy to be more specific to heal yourself first or the innocent victims of toxic abusers or nobody at all particularly and by only teaching people how to heal themselves.
I am very glad when someone can relate to what I write, but, let me explain you one important thing about me. I am a dope person for sure, who can ignore many things and vibes and go on with my life in a chill way. BUT..I am also a deeply empathetic person who has the tendency to soak vibes like a sponge. Thus, if you can relate to what I write, that’s great, but kindly do not make comments like our situation is the same. I get that you may be in a worse or better place emotionally, but if you are in an emotional turmoil, then do not comment like we are in the same state, because I Am Not. When you comment like that, then sometimes, I automatically soak your low vibes, and myself start feeling low out of nowhere like there is something wrong in my own life. After that, I start acting like something wrong is going on, and then others also think, or say, can catch my vibe, that I am having low vibes. It’s exhausting and draining to say the least. I really don’t deserve to feel low for no reason. You can share with me how YOUR SITUATION is relatable to what I write, but, please do not use words like “WE ARE LIKE THAT” “WE THIS” “WE THAT”.. NO “WE ARE NOT THE SAME AND WE ARE NOT IN THE SAME SITUATION.”
AND dare you say that I am being rude via this message. I am not. It’s just a boundary that you have to respect to stay connected.