A toxic one would triangulate you with any miserable one to demean you but the same shithead won’t stop begging you for your attention.
God bless that only one woman who spent her whole life completely selflessly doing everything she could for every single person of her own family as well as maintained a great level of dignity and cooperation with outsiders as well. She has empathy for the poor, disabled n down-trodden. She is a great giver. I have never seen her receiving anything from anyone more than she could give back in return. People who know her know that she is innocent by heart. If she does anything wrong by mistake, she feels apologetic. She has realized her faults from the past. She is happy in seeing others happy, be it a family member or an outsider. She has no ill-will or psychopathy in her. No matter how hard life she lives or in how much strain or distress or illness she lives in, she cannot be selfish, it’s just not in her to be selfish, she has dedicated her whole life n resources to others. She works relentlessly any time she can.