Which kind to choose between confusing personalities of males?? (Psychological perspective with layman’s language).

We may get confused between the real nature of people and end up with the wrong one. Here, what matters is how to recognise someone’s personality. This one is for the females who really need to learn the difference between ‘BAD BOY, GOOD MAN’ and ‘GOOD BOY, BAD MAN’.

The Bad Boy, Good Man is a man who will respect you, stay committed to you, will not let you down or try to destroy you emotionally or mentally. He may act errant and childish from time to time by teasing, irritating or fighting with you for no reason, but that’s about it. He will not do that to manipulate you or to feed his ego but only because he needs to learn better behaviour or that kind of childishness is in him by nature that makes a part of his core personality. There is nothing much wrong in that. To err is human. To be errant is a part of every single person’s personality. He is teachable. He will have his shit together or he will try his best for that. Even at his worst, he will not use others to make him whole.

The latter one-Good Boy, Bad Man is someone you need to keep a distance from or say goodbye to, as soon as you can. This kind of a man is cunning by nature but behaves like a good boy displaying very good behaviour or acts like he is teachable but only as long as you keep feeding him with your energy, your good behaviour, your time, affection and love. He makes you and everyone feel that there is nothing wrong with him. He is a very well-mannered person. But, it’s all a facade. He does that to hide his inner ‘bad man’s character. When you stop or even take a break from or be unable to feed him with what he and his ego desires, he will start manipulating you. He will not think twice before cheating. He won’t commit to you ever. He will stay present in your life but only to control you because his inner man’s nature is inherently evil. He will not hesitate from disrespecting you, that too, when you did not do that much of a blunder or were just being errant like a girl (bad girl, good woman nature), and to disrespect you he may even cheat upon you and put all the blame on your behaviour which was quite normal as ‘to err is human’ and will never take the responsibility or accountability of doing wrong(s) to you. He will mostly use others even as a friend but will act right only when every single thing is going on according to his desires, wishes, whims and caprices. This kind of a man’s nature is inherently evil but he will always act like a good boy/good man in front of others.

Though these are not the only categories. There are ‘bad boy, bad man’ and ‘good boy, good man’ as well. But those personalities are quite easily observable yet they are not easily found. The real confusion happens between the two described above. I hope this will help someone.

SPECIFIC URGENT NOTE..

There are people who hate me, and want anyone and everyone I like in real or am/was a fan of whose work, to hate me as well. So, to get that end, they use my way of talking, my vocabulary and my communication style. It’s not me. I have never tried to torture anyone mentally or socially through fake accounts like that. But, I am seeing that a lot that whosoever I follow or followed in the past on any social media platform is going through similar experience of bullying/comments on one’s personal life. Even if those people on whose accounts those haters comment like that may not know me, still the hatred in those psychopaths mind is so ingrained that they want to abuse any and every person whom I like in any way, no matter from how far.

I don’t even know what these psychopaths want, but then, you know psychopaths have no reasoning capacity in them. They just like to spread hatred. And this is the particular kind, narcissistic, who want to make the blame be drawn upon me (because of same communication style), just in case, anyone would read those comments. Otherwise, just imagine for once, if I had to make a fake account and bully anyone, then why would have I used my own communication style by which I could be easily recognised?? Can you understand criminalistic and psychopathic mind?? I CAN. I have experience as well as educational knowledge and degrees, both in psychology and criminology. You have to deal with them as any hardened criminal who has yet not be convicted.

Block those accounts, report them or best, report them to police through cyber crime portal of your area in case the similar harrassment/bullying happens to you again. There is no use of ignoring them. They need to learn a good lesson now.

Thanks for reading !!