Do Narcissists VENT?

I love it when narcissists Vent openly on social media, for a small fraction of time, it feels like tables have turned. The way the victims want to talk their heart out, wanting others to know what they are going through or have gone through, and still being unable to let it all out because the intensity of the abuse they feel is unmatched with any words or any expression of it, it finally feels, that the relentless banter or the self-expression or uncontrolled trail of arguments by the narcissists against the psychologists or against the people who want to enlighten others against narcissism and bullying, is the way of narcissists for venting it all out about what they have or had gone through.

But.. Let me clear this. It’s a HOAX. Narcissists never vent. They do not have that much emotional depth in them. They do not think straight about how others may or may not feel about them. Actually, narcissists have nothing to do with what effect they may have upon anyone because of their actions. They love to abuse secretly. All of their so-called venting out is just a form of manipulation, the manipulation for everyone to see how bad or evil is a psychologist who has been making innocent people aware of the nature of a narcissist, and the trial of manipulation of the psychologist himself/herself so that they may think that the narc is innocent. So, narcissists do not truly vent regarding the real implication of the word, they just make it look like venting to gather attention and divert others’ attention from the real venting of the victim(s).

Door.

Artwork by Preet. Copyrights Reserved.

The fierce passion forced a door to open untamed,

A gentle heart invited to the golden treasure of love unasked. ๐Ÿงก

In the lap of mountains..

Picture by Preet (copyrights reserved)

Far away,

Beyond the concepts of wrong and right,

in the lap of mountains,

Under the sheet of cloud painted sky,

I will meet you there,

Away from everyone’s sight. -Preet

Let’s Update..

Netflix and chill is outdated,

Let’s cuddle, steal kisses, and share unshared stories.

(First published on 16th may,21)

NEW BLOG..

New blog

DELICIOUS DESSERTS PICTURES COLLECTION..

Here are a few desserts pictures collection, indian and western that I had clicked at different times. Yeah.. I am a big fooodieeee ๐Ÿ˜€ I am trying not to eat much of sweets these days, but felt like going through my phone’s gallery once and share a few yummy dessert pictures.. ๐Ÿ˜‹ Here you go on the desserts tour ๐Ÿ˜โค

Fluffy Pan Cakes with Pancakes Sauce and Chocolate Sauce ๐Ÿฅž๐Ÿ˜
Rose and Mewa (dry fruits) Bites ๐ŸŒน๐Ÿ˜‹
Apple Shaped Kaju peda (Cashew Balls) ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿฌ
Kaju Katli (Cashew pudding slices) ๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜
Gulkand Pan Roll (Rose n betal leaf roll) ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ˜‹
Moong Daal Halwa (green gram pudding) ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‹
Gulab Jamun โค
Gajar ka Halwa (Carrot Pudding) ๐Ÿฅ•๐Ÿ˜
Ferrero Rocher Chocolate Waffle ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿฅฎ๐Ÿ˜‹โค
Tuti-Fruity and Choco-Chips Bar Cakes ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿ˜
Death By Chocolate Pan-Cakes with Chocolate Ice-Cream ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿง๐Ÿ˜โค๐Ÿ˜‹
Nuts and Chocolate Waffle with Vanilla Ice-Cream ๐Ÿง๐Ÿซ๐Ÿฅฎ๐Ÿ˜‹โค

Tell me which one would you like to eat the most and which one would you like to taste for the first time?? ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿคชโค๐Ÿ˜‹

Copyrights on all the pictures are reserved by me (Preet). Please take permission before using any of them and don’t forget to give credits, if permission granted. It will be so kind of you to take permission and not infringe the copyrights as it takes efforts to cook or buy food (in the present case) and click pictures. Thank you. โค

(Original publishing date: 21st June,2021)

Digital-Art: Stone-heads..

Two stone strong heads,

Desiring hearts to melt,

Waiting for the other to take the first step

For what they felt.. -Preet

This is the digital painting I just created. Hope anyone can guess it must not have taken me much to get this idea. The point is, ideas are precious, be it in writing or creating art. The original the better.

Apart from this message, do tell me if you find any other perspective looking at this digital painting.

(Note: Please do not copy the words or download the picture without written consent of the author. All the copyrights are reserved by the author. Thank you. โค)

Self-worth..

I used to fit

into the tiniest box

that only had a wrapping paper looking like love,

I take up my whole space now,

the good n bad,

the clean n nasty,

and see who can fill me up with love

like oxygen somehow.

(Written on 30th oct, 2020)

An advice for Alpha females for marriage..

I want to give an advice to young women/girls who want to get married at some point in their life. Actually, there are many points that I want to discuss under this topic and you may also find many advices online as well as offline regarding marriage. But there is one point that I want to put some light on which is often ignored while considering a life partner.

If you are a woman who is ambitious, takes her own decisions, works her ass off, is a go-getter, and is a provider, in short, the one who has most of the qualities of an Alpha Female, you need to see the family structure of the man if you are interested in him for marriage or life partnership or relationship. I am saying this because I have seen this pattern a lot in society that when and if the females of the family in which a man has grown up, did not work in office, and were by nature-submissive, coy, and silent, that man is going to want the same from his life-partner sub-consciously. It doesn’t matter how much educated or modernised he became, the years (decades) of mental training he got from his family sub-consciously is not going to change even if he finds the otherwise for himself consciously. He would want you to be the same meek and coy woman. Your boundaries will be aggressive to him. Your desires and ambition will make him feel insecure and he would like to impose his dogmatic thinking upon you just like his family’s females were pressed upon and taught to abide by the thinking and orders of the men in his family. He cannot comprehend that you can Think and Do better than him. His insecurities will start acting up whenever you will point out at his flaws, even if done politely. He may even be envious of your work and power because he was conditioned in his psyche’s developmental stages that women are not the Alpha and are meant to be protected and guided only. He may point at your frankness as rudeness. For him, submissive silence is elegance and speaking your mind will be needed to be in a controlled manner according to his dictates.

There will be, most of the times, power struggle between you two because you are an Alpha female and he may feel powerless because of that, so he will try to over-power you to soothe his ill-conditioned mind, and then there might be fights, manipulation and even separation between you two.

What do you think-is it better not to engage with such a man or is it better to engage and then be forced to leave in the end?? Or you can be ultra-submissive just like his family’s females and give upon your own power and capabilities and ambition to soothe his fragile ego??

(PS: Don’t come here with your feminist or anti-feminist mentality regarding this post. It’s about a particular kind of a man. The propositions may be relative to patriarchy but I did not point out at that. This advice is solely for alpha females who also love with whole of their being, so, kindly, do not come with the contention that love is adjustment and all. Those are different topics. I intended to write exactly about a very small fraction of possibilities.)

Thank you for reading. ๐Ÿ™‚

Very proudly, the difference is certain.

I can say this with full confidence that there are more than 15 people who have grave enmity and envy towards me for no reason else than I am being myself and pick myself up from anything that they never could do for themselves, people whom I don’t even consider existent now and whom I helped the time(s) when nobody else did and to whom I was kind to when nobody else was. But here lies the difference between low-vibing fake ones and high-vibing someone.

(From 31st march,2021)