Do Narcissists VENT?

I love it when narcissists Vent openly on social media, for a small fraction of time, it feels like tables have turned. The way the victims want to talk their heart out, wanting others to know what they are going through or have gone through, and still being unable to let it all out because the intensity of the abuse they feel is unmatched with any words or any expression of it, it finally feels, that the relentless banter or the self-expression or uncontrolled trail of arguments by the narcissists against the psychologists or against the people who want to enlighten others against narcissism and bullying, is the way of narcissists for venting it all out about what they have or had gone through.

But.. Let me clear this. It’s a HOAX. Narcissists never vent. They do not have that much emotional depth in them. They do not think straight about how others may or may not feel about them. Actually, narcissists have nothing to do with what effect they may have upon anyone because of their actions. They love to abuse secretly. All of their so-called venting out is just a form of manipulation, the manipulation for everyone to see how bad or evil is a psychologist who has been making innocent people aware of the nature of a narcissist, and the trial of manipulation of the psychologist himself/herself so that they may think that the narc is innocent. So, narcissists do not truly vent regarding the real implication of the word, they just make it look like venting to gather attention and divert others’ attention from the real venting of the victim(s).

What life is like when you are bullied and gaslighted.

https://cheriewhite.blog/2021/10/25/what-life-is-like-when-youre-bullied-and-gaslighted/

Read this brilliant article written by my fellow-blogger Cherie White. Her blog has many such informative and eye-opening blogs regarding bullying, harrassment and social stigmas. I love them all. They give me strength when I need it. I hope she will inspire you as well to stand up against bullies and stand your ground. Do visit her blog and check it all by yourself. ❀

FOUR YEARS ANNIVERSARY..!!

Yayee..Fours Years Anniversary of my blogging on this website. πŸŽ‰πŸŽŠ I didn’t remember that I had started blogging on this beautiful day of Gandhi Jayanti (Mahatma Gandhi’s Birthday).

Although, I took a gap of about two years in between but the journey has been amazing with about 1200 fellow bloggers (as of now) who read and appreciated my poetry, blogs, quotes, digital-art and photography as and when I updated as well as born with and understood my highs and lows.

I hope I won’t disappoint and will resume blogging with much better content. I am on a mental break from all kinds of social interactions for some time.

A Big Thank with a virtual hug to all of you from the bottom of my heart for your patience and appreciation throughout the time. It means a lot to me. β€πŸ€—πŸŒžπŸ™πŸ’–πŸ’«πŸ’œπŸ’™πŸŒ πŸŽŠπŸŽ‰πŸŽ‚

Door.

Artwork by Preet. Copyrights Reserved.

The fierce passion forced a door to open untamed,

A gentle heart invited to the golden treasure of love unasked. 🧑

Rays of hope..

NATURE IS PURE BLISSπŸ˜πŸŒžβš˜πŸ’›πŸ§‘πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ’–πŸ’«

If you ever want to settle,

Settle your mind for such a beauty.

(The above displayed digital painting is the copyrighted work of Preet. Kindly do not copy, download or use without explicit permission. Thank you. β€πŸŒžπŸ’«βš˜πŸ˜)

Digital-Art- Portal to Imagination..

Let’s go to the other world,

Let’s indulge in the abyss of rich imagination..

This is the digital art that I had created two weeks ago i.e. on the 31st of July, 2021. I would love you to imagine that you are entering into another world through this portal and indulging yourself in your vast and rich imagination.. What would you like to imagine as your another world?? I am curious to know..

(NOTE: Please do not copy or download the image and/or copy the words without explicit permission. The copyrights to both are reserved by the author of the website. Thank you..❀)

Please give your opinion..πŸ’–πŸ’œ

I need advice regarding selection of a watch.. I am really really confused.. Hope you may help..

I need to choose between these three watches.. Can you please give me your opinion..Can’t buy more than one..πŸ™‚

Personally, I had eliminated the 3rd one, because the dark gloss of the metal made the crystals look a little dull.. But its dial is beautiful because of its mulberry hue n oval shape.

I was very much confused between the first two..

The first one has the moving crystals in two of its hollow white round shaped links in its straps. I didn’t like its dial that much; it’s quite ordinary (honestly speaking).

The second one has the rose-gold finish, again, my favourite one and that gloss is making the crystals look more vibrant and its dial is also beautiful, but the marking of proper time in the dial is absent, so it’s making me a bit reluctant to choose this one as I am more into looking at the exact time very fast. The same dial marking problem is there in the third one as well..

I NEED REAL SERIOUS ADVICE AS WELL AS ATTRACTION AT FIRST SIGHT SELECTION FROM YOUR SIDE.. Thank You πŸ’–πŸ’œ

Feeling Blessed..

Sometimes you need to focus on where and how you are getting blessed out of nowhere.. like I reduced one inch each from my thighs n tummy in 4-5 days.

Feeling blessed because I ate a lot of sweets n biscuits during this time, and didn’t even exercise too much.

I will update with what really might have worked for me, on my other website soon (maybe tomorrow) http://www.yourchoicestlifestyle.com

Tomorrow or after reducing more should I update my ways for you all?? I will keep a tally about everything, from every sip of any drink to every paddle on the exercising cycle.

Let me know if you are interested in knowing about it all.. I had started writing about fat-loss on the above-mentioned website a couple of years ago but due to lack of interest I had left that topic only after writing one good introductory blog about it.

In the lap of mountains..

Picture by Preet (copyrights reserved)

Far away,

Beyond the concepts of wrong and right,

in the lap of mountains,

Under the sheet of cloud painted sky,

I will meet you there,

Away from everyone’s sight. -Preet

Reminiscing my nature.

I can’t even explain how I think. Many live in and for experiences. I really don’t seek them. I don’t seek events to make memories about them. I don’t think that we are what we create or some experiences can create us (ok particularly me here). How I take experiences is purely the mental stimulators or catalysts for different thinking. As far as I remember nothing has changed me much. Those who know me now or at whatever period of time they might have known me may think that I have changed a lot. But that’s not true. They have only seen my behaviour for a short period of time n for a few events or so on but my basic nature has always been like this only.

I was always quiet in front of the outsiders (school, college, relatives functions, strangers etc.) and quiet in my own home maybe for eternity.. but.. whenever I wanted to socialise I was one hella fun person. I was always the one who organised family functions to the T (not the labour part, ok). I was always sporty whenever anyone came to the house (n got comfy in the family) to play a game or two. I made jokes whenever I observed something laugh-worthy in the surroundings. I was analysing situations, people’s behaviour and dynamics of different kinds right from my very childhood (like since the age of 6-7 years old). I always observed a lot. Like really.. I can very confidently say that I filter about 95-98% of things that I observe just because I find them quite useless including people who think that they can always sneak, tresspass, abuse n escape.. “Nope ! You didn’t. I did let you because you are not important at all.” If you think that I have become angrier, that too, is in my nature by birth, though the outlets have changed. I used to store it all or tended to flush off that energy by playing cricket for two hours daily in the evening (though with my brother n father only). It was really a good release of energy then. Now I feel like not storing any shit in my mind n release it all through words. If we talk about confidence. I always had a very good amount of self-confidence but I was always quiet about it because I was getting regular recognition about my capability through professors n results etc. Now I have to show it in other ways because of the wake of social media as in this era if you don’t verbalise or show your capabilities, then you are considered not to have them at all and those who are ept at showing off, become successful, though they might have half of your capabilities.

The point is.. I was always more or less similar..Not much has changed.. Neither my nature, nor my strength.. It’s just that those who have started to know different sides of me or my deeper layers, they think that I have changed a lot; they actually never knew me. Really.. Never..

Strangest thing about me: I do the things, I hate to do, the most. This one I still cannot understand why. Sooner or later, I end up doing things that I really hate.

Strongest point about me: I really, and by this I mean REALLY, I don’t give a fuck about who thinks what about me.

Weakest point about me: I won’t actualise something until I have done it to perfection, exactly the way I visualised it, and even after reaching that point I keep polishing it so that it can reach a point to my utmost satisfaction.

The best thing I find about my life: No matter how filthy situations, events or people I deal with, my bounce back game is strong AF, stronger than many, and I don’t mean it by the show off part, I mean it about things considered valuable.

(Originally posted on 28th Dec, 2020)