Please don’t tell me how much you self-sabotaged yourself for anybody,
It’s just a form of self abuse;
And if you cannot love yourself enough not to self-sabotage
Then you cannot love anyone else, it’s true,
And to me
showing your weaknesses in the name of love is of no use.
(First published on 29th oct, 2020)
YOU DON’T GO TO A MENTAL ASYLUM TO ONE UP WITH THE MENTALLY IMBALANCED PEOPLE THERE, SO SHALL BE YOUR GENERAL STRATEGY TO STEER YOUR WAY IN THE WORLD. YOU DON’T KNOW WHO CAN BE AN UNDIAGNOSED PSYCHOPATH IN YOUR WAY.
Some of us don’t tell what’s wrong with you because, first of all, you are too old for somebody else to be telling you that; secondly, we know you are not going to change or if you do, that will be quite temporary, so, we really don’t like to waste our words on you.
When you stop giving a shit,
You actually don’t feel the need to announce it.
You will mostly find me as the last person leaving a weak or toxic person or relationship. It is not because I am a co-dependent or needy, it’s because I am quite strong mentally to live on my own and much more accepting of other people’s weaknesses, specially when I begin to relate to somebody quite closely. It is out of pure or unconditional love, but slowly and gradually I begin to realize that the same person begins to take me as a fool, that I do not get to see what that person is doing. The truth is that I actually cannot see what wrong is happening because I have other better things to do than wasting my energy in Trying to Know the activities of the other person; believe it or not, I am too busy and uninterested in that kind of shit (stalking) but my intuition guides me when something wrong is happening and then I get the clues as well.
Moreover, they never think twice before leaving, but when I am in a good place and everybody leaves them, then they expect me to stay?? Because why not, a good hearted person can always be expected to stay and be taken for granted. And when such foolish people become sure of me staying, they tend to give that secure energy to others who would not assure them of even half of me but surely will give such a person a glimpse of the La La Land which does not exist or will never exist.
Sad enough, some people take the realest people for granted for something that would vanish at the slightest hint of hardship, even after getting the proof of the same as an experience.