I love it when narcissists Vent openly on social media, for a small fraction of time, it feels like tables have turned. The way the victims want to talk their heart out, wanting others to know what they are going through or have gone through, and still being unable to let it all out because the intensity of the abuse they feel is unmatched with any words or any expression of it, it finally feels, that the relentless banter or the self-expression or uncontrolled trail of arguments by the narcissists against the psychologists or against the people who want to enlighten others against narcissism and bullying, is the way of narcissists for venting it all out about what they have or had gone through.
But.. Let me clear this. It’s a HOAX. Narcissists never vent. They do not have that much emotional depth in them. They do not think straight about how others may or may not feel about them. Actually, narcissists have nothing to do with what effect they may have upon anyone because of their actions. They love to abuse secretly. All of their so-called venting out is just a form of manipulation, the manipulation for everyone to see how bad or evil is a psychologist who has been making innocent people aware of the nature of a narcissist, and the trial of manipulation of the psychologist himself/herself so that they may think that the narc is innocent. So, narcissists do not truly vent regarding the real implication of the word, they just make it look like venting to gather attention and divert others’ attention from the real venting of the victim(s).
Read this brilliant article written by my fellow-blogger Cherie White. Her blog has many such informative and eye-opening blogs regarding bullying, harrassment and social stigmas. I love them all. They give me strength when I need it. I hope she will inspire you as well to stand up against bullies and stand your ground. Do visit her blog and check it all by yourself. ❤
An Intellectual Person tries to understand different perspectives and then critically evaluates them 🧠
A Fool laughs at everything he Fails to understand. 🤡
It’s not easy
To stay vibrant
In a dark world,
Where the shadows try to eclipse
Where I pay the price
For being kind,
But I choose
against the wind,
Against the grinding grain,
I hope one day it will be acknowledged
My efforts won’t go in vain.
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Throw a bro at everyone,
Don’t care who is in front of you
Just ‘Bro’ them
Got it? didn’t you??
If you ever want to settle,
Settle your mind for such a beauty.
(The above displayed digital painting is the copyrighted work of Preet. Kindly do not copy, download or use without explicit permission. Thank you. ❤🌞💫⚘😍)
Honestly, I like people who are intimidating to many. They are the ones who keep a lot of mediocre shit at bay without even doing anything specifically for that. 😂
My best and the worst coping strategy for emotional turmoil or trauma so far:
Having 10 other things to do, so that whenever I feel anything emotional, I can say to myself, “I haven’t got any time for this shit”.
Yeah, when you keep so many rational things to stress you out, why worry about emotions?? 😂🤣
Psychological Advice- It works for a short-term, doesn’t work in the long run. Also, if you cannot take mental and physical pressure, do not even try this on yourself. Deal with your emotions by understanding them. I also do that whenever I have the energy to do so. ❤
This post is just to thank everyone here who stays patient with me. Sometimes, I cannot interact via comments because I feel shut down due to personal reasons n find it difficult to talk to anyone. Sometimes, you all have to deal with my negative posts involving anguish described in anger n rage. My family as well has to deal with my furious nature. Although, it has reduced drastically in comparison to the last year but still I feel that nobody else than me deserves to deal with those vibes. The darkness should stay with the person to whom it belongs and be released too in a healthy way. I find writing and painting as the mediums to release the negativity that engulfs me, from which I am unable to release it though Art as I can only paint good stuff. It’s only through writing that I can release my worst of dark emotions, and it’s really very important for me to release anger, otherwise I get sick physically as well (fever n low immunity). So, I just want to thank you all (including my family, whom I apologised for my behaviour) for being there in my lows as well, and not only in the times I write something good having some good vibes in it, full of love and beauty. 💜💖
Take the stake
Not by mistake
Now you want to fake
Like you don’t know
Who it did belong to
And to understand everything
You need a break..
The above written poem is a satirical poem on those people in society who take another person’s share (economical) due to their greed and then, when they get caught, they pretend that they didn’t know that it belonged to another person and try to avoid the consequences of their fault/fraud.