Once upon a time I was this guy, living in a parallel universe, who wanted to live in another universe-in another world, And here I am, a human being, who still feels weird and awkward amongst other human beings.
Know the difference of bonding.
When an outsider tries to be more important than a family member, you should make it very clear with your words or actions that they don’t mean shit in comparison to your close family member, no matter what and how your bond is with that outsider. You should not make a family member feel abandoned or alienated ever, you may be the only one that they look forward to for support. Outsiders really should know their limits.
(Originally posted on 10th Jan,2021)