My best and the worst coping strategy for emotional turmoil or trauma so far:
Having 10 other things to do, so that whenever I feel anything emotional, I can say to myself, “I haven’t got any time for this shit”.
Yeah, when you keep so many rational things to stress you out, why worry about emotions?? 😂🤣
Psychological Advice- It works for a short-term, doesn’t work in the long run. Also, if you cannot take mental and physical pressure, do not even try this on yourself. Deal with your emotions by understanding them. I also do that whenever I have the energy to do so. ❤
Here is the secret:
When you are twin-flames you can literally feel the other person’s energy in you. You mirror each-other’s energy, not behaviour. If one person feels love, the other also feels love, perhaps for somebody else and not for his/her twin. When one feels sexual, other somehow gets aroused as well. When one is unwell or mentally depressed, the other feels similar energy. It is more about similarity of vibes and energy, more or less, mirroring each-other in totality which may sometimes be too strong to even distinguish who does it belong to (the person or his/her twin). Object for those vibes, feelings n emotions can be anybody but they are felt in the heart of both parts of the twin-flame.
I have experienced it many a times, though I was wrong about the object of those feelings, vibes n emotions; they were barely for me (both good n bad). Now when I stay in isolation and feel anything, I try to recognise if my emotions really belong to me or not. Out of the blue emotions which seem like completely out of your current mood and circumstances may be given to you by your twin.
Mirroring behaviour of somebody openly is just a part of attraction or infatuation i.e. doing the same or similar thing after seeing someone doing it. It has nothing to do with twin-flames. It is social behaviour, nothing spiritual. Twin-flames spiritual mirroring goes much beyond that and one cannot even know most of the times why they are feeling certain types of feelings.
Energy never lies; if you feel it’s not your energy, it definitely belongs to your twin felt by you but you have to be extra awake to recognize energies to know the difference.
(First published on 2nd Nov, 2020)
I talked to my bua (paternal aunt) about it and she said,
“If he wanted you that much, he would have said it clearly directly and not through other’s accounts, and if you wanted him that much, you would have met him.“
That’s some serious mature advice. I am proud of her. Sad but still..that’s practical..
Whenever I really need some serious advice in which I need to be talked Out Of Emotions, I talk to her. I am still emotional, but thinking practically at the same time, and this time the credit goes to her only..
They say “Date them all until one of them shows you he is serious”,
I say “Brozone them all until one of them shouts “I want to be your fucking husband !!”
*chaos versus clarity*
Crazy but it works 😜
Did I say it out loud
Or didn’t I say it loud enough??
The question is not how you said it
Still the answer lies in what somebody heard in it.
You can pour your heart out for years-
Singing, rhyming, reciting poetry,
Making public displays of affection,
But the one who doesn’t want to feel it,
Will find it merely a noise to the ears.