Should you control emotions??

Many people say that you need to control your emotions. Like there is a need to look cool, calm, and composed in front of others. They are not wrong, but they are not completely right either.

We need to feel emotions; and if they are intense enough to be a block to our rationality, they shall be released as well, and the sooner the better.

Releasing emotions may be done in various ways- Slow and steadily, indirectly, directly, fast and abruptly, peacefully, violently, in a mixed manner.

Do you need to release and regulate emotions?? Yes, but you do not need to either release or regulate them. Release and regulation are not contradictory to each-other.

Do you need to adopt a pattern/way to release/regulate your emotions?? No. Although, you may prefer to adopt a particular pattern but it’s not a need to stick to only one way/manner to either release or regulate those emotions.

Different situations and different people strike/evoke different emotions and they can be released and/or regulated in different manners; and a same emotion can be released in different ways at different times in similar situations.

The target is to soothe your mind as per your requirement keeping in mind your time and energy level and again having a good control over your amygdala.

Don’t listen to one-directional limited and closed minded people’s advice when it comes to subjective terms like emotions, feelings, love, life, success, etc. Your way is the right way until it starts interfering with others’ right(s).Any contradictory contention is welcome but uneducated beliefs and replies through senseless posts on instagram etc. are unaccepted and barred.

(Note: I wrote this 16 hours ago but am sharing now. Clearing this so that readers know that I am in no way starting/continuing a streak of banter with the GASLIGHTING SHIT-SHOW of a TOXIC BITCH on instagram and/or wordpress and/or otherwise.)

STAY IN YOUR MISERY !

The problem with toxic people is that they are always watching you and also think that you are watching them too.

I would put blinders on even if you would be in front of me, leave alone seeing your drama on social media all the time.

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Bitches really thinking they succeeded to their ambition by just barking on a page. No educational background. Not enough money. Only if that BITCH knew how much it takes to use brain for Some things that’s not even possible for that bitch in this lifetime to come close to even half of it.

Stupid failure bitch just Keeps barking about others ambitions without even knowing what the ambition is. Although if you put that bitch in that competition with you that BITCH would 100% fail in it.

Should I say less?? Naah.. Some BITCHES should know they ain’t shit to talk on something about someone. 🙂

LOOPS N PSYCHO POOPS.

People often think that one should not choose comfort and give upon something. I object to this. Sometimes, giving up feels like dying. Personally, it is so, specially when I have worked on something day and night and I am 80% sure of success. The scenario is that the deadlines are the closest, and stupid narcissistic bitches (one of the main reason for giving up) are doing their best to frustrate me, after which it keeps on drawing upon me that a cycle is being repeated THE SAME EXACT THINGS, SITUATIONS, WORDS, TIMELINE, everything is being repeated. My intuition told me that I would fail if I won’t give up.

My two strengths-anytical thinking and intuition, both were telling me to give up. Analytically, I need to be 100% sure about success in something, 80% is too low (not egoistically but logically) and it’s not that I could not bring it to 90%-95% probability in that very short time i.e. 1 day left till the deadline. But you know, that ONE BITCH who was making sounds with his motor-bike ON PURPOSE, that one PSYCHO BITCH because of which I could not sleep for 2 nights at the scheduled time n got angry as well for a few days, made my fear of failure stronger as every single thing was repeating. This time I did not pay much heed to the bitches online who were just spitting false shit, so this psychopath bitch came in real to annoy me.

As a result, I decided to give up after being so close to gaining from an opportunity.

I have made it in my mind that I would not let any cycle repeat that led to my adversity or failures in the past, be it about anything.

PS: If someone keeps writing on a page or is commanded/requested to write “Keep it secret until it’s done. Outside energy can throw off goals.” Alongwith other outside energy that shit (writer) is itself one of the biggest unlucky and evil outside shit that you need to get rid of. Some people try to become your well-wishers but their energy is SHIT AF, specially when you have the proofs of it in terms of patterns repeating the same way over n over again alongwith their psycho part played in it. I don’t understand why those bitches can’t stay away and mind their own business !!

😂😂🤣

Me: Someone give me body like Deepika Padukone 😭😭 *while eating chhole-bhature*

My friend: Someone give me body like Shahrukh Khan 😭😭

Me: You are lazy and you don’t eat healthy. Apse na ho payega. 😜

Them: 😒😒

Me: 😂🤣🤣

#27 My Bestie

What books do you want to read?

All the professional books, belonging to various professions. That’s my heartiest hearty desire. I want to gain knowledge of almost every profession.

I don’t like fiction until it’s very deep and romantic/erotic+mysterious. I don’t like self-help books, as reading articles online for the same thing comes quite handy. I don’t like story books with a lesson, that lame shit feels like wasting so much of precious time; as when I read a couple of such books I have had already learnt those lessons through experiences in my life by that time. Also, mostly you feel that you knew about those lessons or heard about them from others (even if they weren’t learnt through experience)..

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I am that person who would ask “Wtf do you want??” and won’t give it.

KNOW YOUR PLACE !!

If you don’t know where you stand in front of me and many others, the number of quotes you have shared on your bloody stupid page in your entire life, i read that much in just half to one hour. And you have the audacity to think that you know better and talk shit to control me in any way??

Know your place and attach it to your brain (if you have any) before looking like a stupid fuck.

2 possibilities.

What if all the animals are actually aliens and human beings are too dumb to realize this??

What if actually we are aliens and earth is the home to microbes only??

Dressed to impress myself.

If I changed 4 dresses on my birthday, I am wondering how many dresses would I change on my wedding.

Well, how 4 dresses on my birthday, let me explain- 1. On waking up I wore a baby pink coloured long strapped strap n knot frock, to have the view of the mountains. Yeah, it was cold yet I did care less about it after which I actually started. sneezing n got a little fever. Yayee.. Even my face, specially eyes got serious bloating. 😂🤣 Gladly, I got rid of the bloating by late evening.

2. After taking bath, I wore a brown-rust coloured shimmering strappy dress with black coat to have a round of the terrace of the place(Casa Arhan Luxury Stay) I was at to enjoy the view of the lights in the evening.

3. I wore my Birthday Dress for cake cutting, of which I have uploaded a picture on my instagram feed. Grayish-purpleish holographic, all glittery and skin tight bodycon with a fancy one-shoulder silky neck. Honestly, one of my most favourite dresses till date. But I changed it right 5-10 minutes after cutting cake.

4. For the snacks, I preferred to look like a snack (I know I am being shameless here 🤣) but the dress is of that kind only. The shortest dress I have ever worn, that barely covered me, as a bodycon- backless till the hips, strappy with really exposing neck from the top in the front as well as barely covering from the bottom/hemline. Okay, so this one was silver sequined light gray coloured and was kind of more comfortable too, for having dinner.

PS- I dressed to make myself happy n impress myself the whole day. 💃❤💫😍🧿

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