A healthy-minded person– “You are amazing. I like you, but I don’t know what your needs are in a relationship. So, I am unsure about it or we can talk through things.”
A narcissist– I am the best one for you. Period.
A narc never considers your needs. Your needs?? What are they?? You are supposed to be perfect and their mind-reader as well so that you can supply them with everything they want whenever they want!!
How dare you to have any need, you codependent person!! Stop your needy drama!!😡