Backward people, to a woman, be like “Find a man who is done with his hoeing stage and wants to settle.”
What about me dodo who hasn’t even started her proper courtship stage, forget about hoeing?
This kind of advice sounds so pathetic, needless to say biased.

This kind of a guy, just like me.
PS- I don’t want to ‘Settle’, I want to prosper with a partner. I am already ‘Well Settled and prospering’.