How the departed souls that are connected with you stay with you..Not always and all the time but whenever they want to and whenever they want to give you a message. My eldest bua, who died in April, 2020, has a way to connect to me. She first makes me fall asleep abruptly and then meet me in my dream. I am saying “she makes me fall asleep abruptly” because on rare occasions I sleep when I don’t want to and I usually won’t at that time and after waking up I can feel why I did. Today, just a few minutes ago, I slept in the same manner that I slept in 2020 on rare occasions. I saw her in my dreams not in the way I see her generally in my dreams but a real meeting of the souls. She was simple, content, and happy to meet just like she used to be when she was alive. She actually had a message for us- me and my family, and I, with a surprised tone and amusement in my voice even asked her “why did you die when you are living just like you used to live? There is no difference. You could live more. I wanted you to live so much more.” She didn’t say anything in reply and just smiled and grinned only. And then i got up instantly. I think souls are not allowed to tell us the secrets of the other side even in our dreams, so she didn’t answer to that question.
I can never explain the feeling of actually seeing her happy and the mixed feeling of being happy about this meeting and the sadness and grief that washed over me knowing that I can’t stay with her alive like we used to live.
The dream was too real to think otherwise just like those dreams of 2020 in one of which she told me and shown me how she died and how she felt thereafter.
NGL, last year when I was too ill – infection (for a few days, in delhi) plus daily fever of 101-102 due to urticaria for more than 4 months and was working for an exam despite being so ill, all of my family members who are no more with us hugged me tighly in my dreams on a daily basis telling me without saying any word we know what you are going through and we are with you.
Souls do meet when we are deeply connected with them.