
One of my biggest problems n biggest blessings is that I never fit in, since my very childhood. I can be jovial n polite with all but I have never been involved in any group, be it in school, college or work; AND I love my life this way. I don’t feel like I am missing out on something by not getting involved with any kind of group, rather I feel good because I stay away from a lot of groupist biases, and mental and behavioural inhibitions.
It’s only when we grow up that we realize that fitting in was probably the best thing that could have ever happened to us, where we appreciate our loner nature, and come to love it, come to love ourselves. But for me, that inability to fit, made being a teenager a living hell, it was only after 25 that I began to accept it.
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It’s great that you find solace in isolation, at least now, or could at any point in time. Thank you for the feedback.. ❤🙂
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