**Trigger Alert: This may trigger some femi-nazis painfully but I have to write this for egalitarian ones. **
I have read at a places where it was written by a toxic feminist “real support is when a man supports a woman’s career and not when he supports her if she wants to be a home-maker. A man always wants a woman to be an unpaid maid at home. ”
First thing first, why do a few women think that being a home-maker by choice makes a woman any less than a career-oriented one??
Secondly, why is support between the two choices are being biased about when both the lifestyles have been chosen by women considering all the pros and cons they deemed fit considering?? If they are really feminists why do they have any problem with other women’s choices made by their free will??
Do women really need poking nose of some other egoistic women who think that only their way of living is the right way of living??
Why do these femi-nazis think that home-makers cannot earn money while there are ample opportunities to earn online these days??
I know that some men with inherent toxic patriarchy in them think that the woman working at home only is of lesser value than them but do all the people (both men and women) think this way??
Last, but, not least, “if you are so independent of a woman, then why do you even need support of a man under any circumstances, be it for career?? Why always begging for support for career?? Be a real independent woman and do it all by yourself !!” I see a lot of hypocrisy in demanded respect and support from a whole group (gender here) whom you yourself do not want to respect and support.
Why do these toxic women keep begging for support??
And if a normal or egalitarian woman supports both men and women considering them as equal human beings, then she becomes a pain in the ass of these toxic women or as I call it “toxic mahila mukti morcha” and these women start letting their internal misogynistic behaviour being manifested clearly. Actually, these are those burdens on society who exercise both, misandry as well as misogyny, and if anyone points out at their toxicity then they have that tagline embedded in their vocabulary “You are a misogynist.” Like WTF?? You have shown your misogynistic behaviour, both directly and indirectly, and if anyone points out at your toxic mentality, then they are a misogynist? 😂
(PS: I have not written all this because I want to be a home-maker. I am highly career-oriented. I have written this because I respect home-maker women as much as any career oriented woman and man. Also, I believe in egalitarianism.)