Jealousy is not love.
Pain is not love.
Jealousy arises out of ego, when we lose someone or something, that our ego perceived as our own.
Pain arises out of passion, whose sole basis is desires.
If you are aquainted with the concepts of Id(lowest level of consciousness, involving desires etc.), Ego(middle level, involving rationality etc.) and superego(highest level i.e. conscience), you will know that true love actually comes out of superego but we usually consider the consequences of Id and ego as love.
Nope.. That’s not love.
Those two feelings are surely intense because of which we feel too emotional and vice-versa and begin to think that it’s love but they are only that-intense feelings coming out of our lower levels of consciousness.
Love is much deeper yet much lighter than that. It does not feel heavy. It comes out of highest forms of conscience in which one becomes completely selfless and does not know the difference between ‘you’ and ‘me’. 🙂